no dress rehearsal, this is our life

rainbow

Stare in the morning shroud and then the day began
I tilted your cloud, you tilted my hands
Rain falls in real time and rain fell through the night
No dress rehearsal, this is our life

If you’re celebrating Canada Day (and I know many have problems with the notion), there’s no better place to be than Ottawa. Forrest hung flags on the porch of the house and Arthur (who is nearly 21 months) loved going out to look at them. The Franco-Ontarian flag, the Canadian flag, and the B.C. flag. Drapeau, he kept saying with delight. Drapeau!

The day  began wet, with a low grey sky. We went to the Aviation Museum, which is nearby, and a good place for a toddler on a rainy day. There were thousands of people there—inside, outside, dripping wet, almost all of them dressed in red and white. We were greeted by volunteers offering tattoos and of course we all accepted. When the sky cleared, we went outside for gelato and to see a helicopter rise up, the wind from its blades fanning us all.

It cleared enough for us to eat dinner under the vines and to see the Snowbirds fly over at least four times. I remembered the times the planes came low over Sakinaw Lake, perhaps 25 years ago, when our neighbour’s son was one of the pilots and the team would be enroute to Comox. It felt like Armageddon, those fast planes swooping over a quiet lake on a remote part of the west coast. But over Ottawa on Canada Day? Part of the celebration.

We took a bus downtown and then walked through torrential rain to the Canadian Museum of History where Forrest has been working for five years, researching and helping to create the new Canadian History Hall. We didn’t intend to visit the Hall and seeing the crowds lined up to have a glimpse of it made us glad we’re planning to go tomorrow. Our destination was the concert by the Lost Fingers, which was wonderful, even without much amplification (they were to perform outside and I guess the decision to move them inside was last-minute…). Crowds, crowds, all in such good spirits. Thousands and thousands of people everywhere you looked. Every kind of person. Old, young, every imaginable ethnicity. We were soaking wet but somehow it didn’t matter. Most people were wet. Most of them had waited in lines, walked (as we did) several kilometers to get to the Museum, and there was such friendliness and excitement. After the concert, we went up to the terrace where Forrest’s colleagues were able to watch the big screens showing the concert on the other side of the river. The Prime Minister and his wife Sophie introducing singers — Gordon Lightfoot, who’d performed for the 100th birthday, singing If You Could Read My Mind, which we’d heard the Lost Fingers perform an hour earlier. The last number was a recording, the Tragically Hip singing Ahead by a Century, with the lyrics projected on the huge screen, and voices in the darkness joining them.

Then the fireworks, as spectacular as any I’ve ever seen, starbursts and exploding blossoms of light over the dark river.

fireworks

From where we were, we couldn’t see the tipis by the main stage in front of Parliament. There’s a lot wrong with our country and it’s a good time to remember those things. It’s too late in our history for the injustices to go unchecked and unacknowledged. Economic and educational disparity, poor water: all of it, any of it, is unacceptable. But we also have a country in which great things are possible and we need to insist on fairness and equality. Looking at all the faces around me, listening to them sing, watching the fathers hold their children up to see the beautiful lights in the sky, and the mothers consoling babies for whom the noise was too much, the teenagers waving wands decorated with maple leaves and carrying little flags, I felt I was part of something big and beautiful. Not perfect. But it’s up to us to try harder, to insist that those we elect work towards a better system that serves us all well, not just some of us. Or maybe even most of us.

First we’d climb a tree and maybe then we’d talk
Or sit silently and listen to our thoughts
With illusions of someday casting a golden light
No dress rehearsal, this is our life

(thanks to Manon for photographs…)

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~ by theresakishkan on July 2, 2017.

4 Responses to “no dress rehearsal, this is our life”

  1. So lovely! When you write it I feel like I missed out! But I don’t do big crowds and I’m feeling a little cranky and am not in the woo-hoo state of mind at the moment. I spent most of the day in an alternative way: curled up on my father-in-law’s bed talking about photography and fooling around with his Hasselblad and his Russian panoramic, which he’s given to me, while he talked about shooting, which he can’t do anymore because of his MS. The truth is we are losing him. I am preparing to shoot a series with him, gently costumed using everyday items, as Shakespearean characters – starting with King Lear. I envision my daughters hand resting on his chest. He emigrated to Canada from Northern Italy at the age of 42, no small feat for a middle-aged man and his family. My husband was 10 when they arrived in Sudbury. My children are first generation Canadian on that side, a mere 2 or 3 on my side. How young a country we are! How fortunate we are, through quite random circumstances, to be here! xo

    • It’s stories like yours that remind me of what I love about Canada, A. Finding a place, a future. Like you, I don’t like crowds. Usually. But sometimes there is such beauty in the numbers.

  2. Thank you. Almost a first generation Canadian here – my mother was conceived in Russia, born shortly after her German Mennonite parents arrived in Manitoba in 1925; my father arrived after WW II, when his region of Germany was given over to Poland, and his family displaced from their ancestral village with only what they could carry. I myself have no connection to the “old country”, to another ancestral land – this is it for me! My husband is of indigenous heritage; our children are a mix of old and new, as it were. Very alive to all of the troubling “colonial” issues; very aware of what a haven and refuge this country is to so many. Your post is a perfect expression of what is great and good about our shared Canadian heritage. Again, thank you.

  3. So many of us have such intricate family histories, legacies. In my forthcoming book, I try to figure out my own, with some surprises…In this Ottawa household, we are a mix of English (my husband and so my son, also), probably Scottish (my mum, though she was a foundling so her parentage is uncertain), Bukovynian, Moravian-Silesian (my father’s parents), French (my daughter in law’s family mostly arrived in the 1670s, though there is also Algonquin on her father’s side and one of those arriving in the 1670s married a woman who’d come earlier, 1640s). In other words, ours is a Canadian family! I’m looking forward to a visit to the Canadian History Hall later today to see what my son, a passionate historian, has helped to create.

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